Question 1

Can you tell me more about the screening process?

Accepted Answer

Screening keeps us both safe. Like you, I live a private life and work diligently to keep this separate from my personal endeavors. Your screening information is sent to an encrypted inbox and is deleted upon verification. I will only contact you via email. To allow time for screening, please make your date requests at least 3 days' in advance.

Question 2

How do you approach discretion?

Accepted Answer

Whether you practice anonymity for personal safety, family or employer privacy, or simply for the thrill of being someone else for a moment, I can assure your discretion will be respected. If we meet in public, you will appreciate my adaptability and subtlety, and we will blend in seamlessly with ease. Discretion protects us both, and for this reason I cannot accommodate requests for face-identifying photos or to speak over phone/video prior to meeting.

Question 3

I’m new to this and a little nervous; how should I prepare?

Accepted Answer

It brings me joy to meet newcomers and I delight in making you feel comfortable. The best preparation is for you to let me know how you’re feeling before we meet! I do not judge a new suitor’s level of experience and in fact enjoy providing a level of ease to those who are new to this lifestyle. It helps if you know what it is you’re looking for in our time together, and then share that with me at the beginning of our date, so that I may take care of the rest for you. It may ease your tension to say a little about yourself when screening.

Question 4

How can I make a great impression?

Accepted Answer

Before meeting, clarity and chivalry in our digital love letters goes a long way. I am most impressed by suitors who are complimentary, clear, and show a bit of personality. Start with sharing what you’re passionate about, and I’ll be yours. Planning ahead shows consideration for my schedule and work/life balance; please make your date requests at least 3 days' in advance. On our date, being honest up front (about your intention, comfort level, requests, etc.) will make an excellent first impression. Showing up clean and presentable, and with a positive attitude, will catch and keep my attention right away.

Question 5

What are you attracted to in a lover?

Accepted Answer

I go weak in the knees for suitors who are courteous, honest, refined, respectful, open, perhaps a little shy, and know when to loosen their ties a bit. I love folks who light up when learning new things, and who don’t shy away from a new thrill.

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Can you tell me more about the screening process?

How do you approach discretion?

I’m new to this and a little nervous; how should I prepare?

How can I make a great impression?

What are you attracted to in a lover?

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